Remembering the Late, Great Miss Major Griffin-Gracy

Where do I even begin? Black Trans Revolutionary? Trailblazer? Stonewall Veteran? Author? Activist? Pioneer? Producer? I could talk all day listing who she was. And somehow, I think it still wouldn’t be enough to describe how major Miss Major was. Miss Major never asked for permission. Generally, she said what needed to happen and somehow, whatever that thing was... shortly after she said it.... You were watching it come to fruition. Some people are born as nouns. Well, Major Griffin-Gracy was a verb. When she was told she couldn’t create a space in an empty building next door to a resource center where she worked in San Francisco, she took a sledgehammer and knocked a hole in the wall so the Trans Gurls in the Tenderloin could come in from off the streets and have a place to be safe, freshen up, and rest. She knew she was going to be fired, but she did it anyway because that was Miss Major being “Major.” Always on task with her mission: you only had to be around her a little bit to realize that mission was as focused at almost 80 years old as I can imagine it was when she was organizing the girls on the streets of New York City in her twenties. The mission was to care for her Trans Gurls of color.

Today, as we approach the anniversary of her earthly passing, I think about the person whose life was so large; the fact that she’s not physically with us anymore may seem like a loss to some... but she lived her life so legendary that her own words will forever be true: Miss Major will always be “Still Fucking Here!”

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Sorrows & Prayers… but no f*cks given

For many people, church is the house of God and the ideal of it is supposed to be where God resides. It’s been a while since I’ve been in Sunday school, but I do remember that the term ‘church’ can refer to a physical building as well as the “believers” that occupy a space. If I make no mistake, both are supposed to be a place where you go for comfort, seek guidance, and a place of healing for both those seeking and receiving, but sadly that’s not usually the reality for most of us of Trans or queer experience.

On November 22, the NYC homecoming ceremony for the icon, activist and matriarch Miss Major Griffin-Gracy was held. The service took place at The Riverside Church in Manhattan, a church that’s supposed to have a long standing history of being inclusive and supportive of the LGBTQIA community. They even have a Maranatha ministry, a ministry dedicated to being the first LGBTQIA parish-based ministry within the United Church of Christ. With advertising like that, you can imagine the shock and confusion when attendees of Miss Major‘s home going service were asked to leave abruptly with no explanation given to the mourners.

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Miss Major’s NYC Memorial and the Church’s Final Faux Pas

Around an hour and twenty-five minutes into the live-streamed program, the atmosphere shifted. A visibly hurt and frustrated Doroshow announced that despite what she had been told and what she had paid for, she had been informed that they would not be receiving their full time and the program would be cut short. Mariah Moore was the next to speak, and although forced into brevity, started with,

“How cliche, we are here celebrating someone who lived such a full life and we are told that we have limited time.”

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